Flirting is like a skill, it takes a while to master and properly develop. Men are not spirit that read minds and sometimes don’t notice all the ways that women flirt. As a lady, if you don’t make the opposite sex aware that you are flirting, there is a possibility they’ll have no idea. Here are the top 10 ways women flirt with men that they don’t notice. Though some men can be a little naive.
1. Body Movement
Some men don’t understand body language ladies. One like crossing and uncrossing your legs is an obvious flirting signal, especially if she is wearing high heels. It’s a very sexy approach, but some men are too clueless to realize it's considered flirting. So If you are a lady flirt using this body language, you should think of a different approach. Try a method that involves touching him, like brushing his arm if he makes a funny joke.
2. Turning Your Hair
Men are usually in their heads, probably overthinking what to say next if they see a pretty girl, hence they don’t always pay attention to all the details. So playing with your hair to be flirtatious might not really get men to be aware you are flirting. It might come across as a nervous twitchy habit, instead of something that’s sexy. You don’t need to continuously run your fingers through your hair to get a man’s attention just smile.
3. Cleaning up
Most men don’t notice every little detail about a woman. A lady might go to the bathroom to brush her hair halfway into a conversation, they won’t notice. Put as much effort into your appearance as you want before you meet them but it’s better to focus your energy on making great conversations. Save the hair brushing for when you get home.
4. Winking
If you wink at a man, he might think you have a tick. It will get his attention but it won’t leave him thinking you are a sultry seductress or some may think you are a sex worker. Winking isn’t something that a woman should do with a man you just met. Friends can wink at ladies, but if you want to flirt with a man, don’t wink at him.
5. Laughing At Everything He Says
Laughing can be a great way to flirt – who doesn’t love that ego boost of meeting somebody that finally “gets it.” But if you are speaking to a man and you laugh at everything he says, you’ll only confuse him aside from coming off just plain silly. He’s going to wonder what’s so funny.
6. Trying To Make Him Jealous
One terrible way to flirt with someone is to try to make them jealous. Immature men or drama kings may pick up on this, but the mature ones will see right through it. Besides, most guys are too stupid to realize you’re trying to make them jealous. So step up your game and act your age. Using jealousy as a flirting tactic is for children.
7. Keep The Compliments To Yourself
Compliments are like liquor. They are good when it is not too much but terrible in excess. You can compliment a man on his dress but you don’t need to tell him how sexy he is 10 times. Additionally, chances are if you compliment someone as a way of flirting, they will most likely just think you are just being good to them. Come up with a more obvious way of flirting that even clueless men will notice.
8. Facebook Flirting
In today’s day and age, Facebook has become a way to meet people. It is a sad fact, but true. If you send someone a flirty message on Facebook, they most likely won't realize that you are flirting with them. Some may likely think you are looking for something. Or you are a scammer …waiting to happen. Don’t send lengthy flirty messages. Yeah…. Sometimes just a HI, could do the trick.
9. Chewing on Your Gum
Chewing gum isn’t sexy. If you try to be sexual with your gum to pick up a guy, he will most likely think something is wrong with you. Gum chewing should be saved for your guy friends but not to impress a man you like.
10. The Goodnight Text
Sending someone you are casually dating a goodnight text isn’t flirting, it is just needy. They will view you as a typical girl instead of thinking you are flirting with them. Save your flirting for in-person meet-ups, it’ll be much more effective than a text message.
Okay ladies, now you have some clued into some techniques that men don’t consider flirting. So, don’t waste your time sending out the wrong signals. Most Men don’t get it. Get out there and get your flirting skill on with that man you admire!
